Why is anyone gay? it just is, you might as well ask a butterfly why it is a butterfly. The Butterfly was a worm before, but now it is a worm with wings.
I have reason to believe that being gay is biological. It exist in every form of life on this planet. And it serves a purpose just like the butterfly serves a Function. The purpose isn't always clear.
I am gay because i was biologically put together this way. it is not a sickness or a disease. It is just a biological function of this world.
And No matter what i could do or what you could have done, Nothing could change it. nothing can stop a force of nature. You could slow down the process but somethings that causes more harm then good.
Good question mom, keep them coming. :)